One of the golden rules of blogging is to not draw attention to the fact that you haven’t been blogging regularly. Which is sort of stupid, because if you follow me you sort of know whether you’ve seen me around blog-town or not 🙂
Sure, I’ve put out a few posts here and there since the new year, but not nearly what I’ve normally done or what I would like to do.
The cold hard truth is that my son has been having some issues lately. For those that have been following along for a while, you know he has cerebral palsy and some other issues associated with his prematurity, but I’ve never gotten really into the nuts and bolts of it. And I’m still not sure I’ll ever fully talk about it on my blog.
But some things have changed with him recently and I’ve sort of been focusing on getting these new issues diagnosed and under control and blogging has taken a back seat to that. My son relies on me 100% for every aspect of his care, so blogging has always been my happy, creative place I go to “when I have a free moment” sort of thing. The free moments are just pretty hard to come by right now.
For that, I will not apologize. But hopefully we’re on the right path to getting this little bump in the road of his health under control and I can get back to life as I know it.
In totally unrelated news, one of my readers alerted me to the fact the West Elm was carrying those Thermos travel mugs that I was so obsessed with!!! (Would it be wrong to add another few exclamation points?)
Not sure if it’s a temporary thing or how fast they will sell out, but I bought myself one in a heartbeat!
And thank you from the bottom of my Thermos loving heart for emailing me about them Jill!!! (there I go with the exclamation points again)
Heather - New House New Home
Sorry to hear that your son is struggling. Hopefully you can get this sorted quickly and get back to a normal routine.
Your so right about not making a big deal about whether you’re posting or not. I’ve just recently taken a step back from the blogging world – no more scheduling 3-4 posts per week and spending hours on the computer trying to get it out there. And I feel lighter for it. I feel more creative instead of burdened with creating. I wonder if my readers have noticed that it was a week between posts? I doubt it!
Paula@SweetPea
I hope that your son’s health will soon improve. It’s got to be difficult to watch someone you love struggle. Family first always!
heather t
Hey Pam, my thoughts are with you and your family. Life happens, and blogging will always be there once things are a little more stable, you know? If you can’t get to it now….it is what it is. All us parents get that, and you just gotta do what you can do. We’ll be here whenever it’s good for you to be here 😉
Lottie
Yes, we will be here! Hope your son’s health continues to improve!
Linda @ Itsy Bits And Pieces
You are right where you should be, Pam…I hope your son is doing better soon. I’ve always used my blog as my go-to happy, creative place, too…I understand what you mean by that. Sending a big xoxo your way…
Junkchiccottage
Hi Pam,
Sorry to hear your son is struggling. Life does have a way of taking over sometimes and blog land has to wait. We are here for you and enjoy your wonderful posts when you can do them. Keeping good thoughts for better days ahead for your son. OMG that thermos coffee mug is sooooooo cute.
Kris
Joanne Noragon
I hope you have all issues sorted as soon as possible; I know how it just sucks up time. But, you son is first and we’ll see your adventures when you get to them.
Deb
Hope things settle down soon and you and your precious son are back to “normal”.
Shara
Family first. Always. I hope everything is okay and your son is getting the help he needs. We’ll always be here waiting for a post! *I never travel with coffee. But, I NEED that cup……
TARYTERRE
You have to do what is most important. Your son is indeed your top priority. I hope the situation stabilizes for him and you. You are in my prayers. I love your life is like photography quote.
KJ@letsgoflyakite
Thinking about you and your boy Pam. I hope that you are successful in getting these health issues assessed and properly diagnosed. I can only imagine how worrisome this is.
Sheila Halterman
Hugs and prayers for you and your family. I hope you find answers for your son’s problems. and life can get back to normal for all of you. We miss your funny, interesting posts, but family must always be first. Take care.
susie @ persimmon moon cottage
I hope that your son will be doing better soon. Family comes first. I will continue to watch for you anytime you post. You and your son will be in my prayers.
Larissa Prodigal Pieces
Family first, and we are praying for a sense of peace for you. {HUGS}
Patti Estep
Oh Pam, that’s heartbreaking. Prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family.
Travelin' GRITS
I concur, family first. But thanks for writing and sharing. I love your sense of humor and your special thrift finds. Take care of you and your son, and know that we’ll be here to read your posts regardless of length of time.
Donna Wilkes
I have missed you but son first – know we have surrounded the both of you with love. Speaking of love, love the plaid Thermos cup – wonder how many they have sold?
Rue
Hi Pam, I found you through Brenda. I hope everything is going better now 🙂
Love that Thermos cup!
rue
marty (A Stroll Thru Life)
So sorry to hear your son has had a few setbacks. Hopefully things are better now. I will keep you all in prayer. Just blog when you can, we are always here.
Melinda
I have said it before and I will say it again–YOU are your son’s best
advocate and you do a super job!!
Hope things settle down for you both soon.
We will be here when you get back.
What an awesome mug!!!!
!!!!!!!! make me happy.
M 🙂
Jane@Cottage at the Crossroads
Pam, I hope that your son is better and that you have found a resolution for the issues you mentioned. I take care of my mother so many times I’m absent from the blogging world. You know, we can only do what we can do and I think that you have your priorities in the right place.
Debby
I’m sorry that your boy has been having medical issues. It has to be so hard to see him struggle. I miss your posts but know he takes prority. I hope you can take some breaks from time to time. I know when our son was younger, those breaks were so helpful. Hugs
Anita Diaz
Pam, prayers and thoughts for all of you:-) You are exactly where you should be and everyone supports that. Hoping your son is doing better soon!!
Vickie @ Ranger 911
I’ve noticed that you haven’t been blogging as often, Pam, but I know you have a lot resting on your shoulders. My thoughts are with you and I hope your son is doing better and you are blessed with some down time in the days to come. I’m sending a big hug your way.
xo, Vickie
Sherry@Back2Vintage
I totally understand. Take care of your son first. We understand and will be here when you have time. I pray that he will do better soon.
Laurie @ Vin'yet Etc
My thoughts are with you and your family my vintage loving friend. I totally get it, the blog drops for me when life gets wobbly, as it should. Hugs and strength. Xo ps.. . Never too many exclamation points, ever!